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Singapore Family and Juvenile Justice Center to do a survey, husband and wife relations in the average age of 40-year-old husband, wife, the average age of 37 years of age are most vulnerable to problems, the divorce rate is considerably high.

Ten years of common life, running-in stage long past, why can not run away marriage crisis?
Marriage is full of unknowns. Hope that the couple married 10 years to do a good job on the one hand, the accident happened emotional preparation, on the other hand, heart operations, to ensure the stability of marriage.
Professor Zhu said: “The longer the marriage, the more of each other’s habits, the easier it is to ignore the importance of mutual understanding, the feelings of so indifferent down gradually.” Professor Zhu think this, and no matter what problem, both spouses should be open communication, evading the problem not the solution

Such as a marriage on the School, learning much or not, having fun or not, varies from person to person. Have coincidental factors, but can not be absolutely attributed to coincidence. In this school, some people learn a lot, but also a number of amendments, they have a Happiness. However, some people who harvest it are tears and sadness. What can compare woman after marriage have a happy life?

What a woman can have a happy married life

First, know how to seek common ground while reserving differences on minor ones woman.

Married, two people of different personalities living together, living habits, temper, personality, interests and hobbies vary. If too picky, have to change to the other party in conformity with their own standards, it is likely to generate discontent and resentment the other side: I was this way, changed to change, it is my own it? Event for the same, small deposit varies, it is wise of.

Second, the economy is relatively independent woman.

If you consider marrying a husband to get to be the princess charming, it pays for doing nothing; or openly to the husband as their own long-term free lunch box, this kind of thinking is very dangerous. Once the economy completely to rely on in her husband, marriage, it is easy to. A woman can not too much money, but also be able to earn their own living. Even if we consider to be a full-time mother have to think twice, even though we know that the pay of full-time mother in fact, a lot, but because there is no actual economic income and let the credit appears to pale. Unless the full support of her husband, or well-off family property, or other reasons because there is no way, do not easily quit their jobs. Full-time wife’s life a long time, because they have no income, it is inevitable that some lack of confidence. Even if her husband will not, their occasional uneasy will come behind.

Three of their own remains confident woman.

Self-confident woman, is itself a charm. If you are not authorized themselves, how others have recognized? Set up self-confidence not only in appearance, but also required the connotation of self-cultivation, morality against the background. Behavior elegant woman beautiful woman more than charm, gentle woman than do strong shrewish woman more acceptable. Enhance their self-cultivation, and perhaps are each married woman should not stop a homework.

Fourth, know how to love, but also love their own women.

Married woman, who is also the number of posts also have the responsibility on the shoulders, but also cherish their own. Married women manage family time, love her husband, family love is a natural thing, not to forget its own. Value their own, in fact, is the family treasure. Woman in a family are not the importance of doubt, if the woman at the helm likened to a person, am not at all an exaggeration. In front of people struggling to paddle in the rear of the helm in the firm to put together a smooth sail boat destination.

V. major is not confused, they do not care about trivial woman.

A home, there is always one thing stalls. Event to talk about principles, not confused, some trivial matters best not to fuss too much and too picky. If is often irrelevant because things happen led to a quarrel between husband and wife, should not the course of time the feelings of not only warming, but also may lead to the disappearance of love, affection cooling. If the complaining and nagging often echoed in the ears, how can happiness together?

Sixth, in order to have some housekeeping woman.

To operate their own family, not some feel unable to housekeeping ability and insight. Women to learn how to become a right of “steward.” How the steady development of healthy families, women often play a very important role. Shuangjian couples together with the wall is perfect, so the situation can only be attributed to God’s good fortune; but between husband and wife of each other, it seems much easier. Married woman, not only in the methods Zhijia learn some things, so that they can happy, comfortable to deal with all aspects of family matters, to avoid burn energy haggard.

Seven, can still maintain their own interests and hobbies of women.

Married to a woman is still able to maintain themselves and must not become a victim of the family. If apart from the family, husband, children, time does not have its own interests, hobbies, entertainment and so on, then a bit from the family some small disappointments, it very easy to feel lost, depressed. Married women should be different from one to maintain their hobbies, leisure time has an independent mind garden, real life has a space of their own friends.

Have a happy marriage of a woman, not necessarily a very clever woman. However, the mentality of woman living and happiness will only farther away from their own.

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And women’s perception of men compared to men of women’s request to “foreign” and “extensive” is much more. However, the United States University of New Mexico evolutionary biologist Brandy? Thornhill in the past 15 years, the research tells us that men most interested in the image of women, not as we previously thought, as there must be addressed is convex, in fact, “body symmetry” on it.

1, the body’s symmetry

That is, the body’s left side and right half should be exactly the same, limb symmetry. Brandy? Thornhill over the past 15 years has been engaged in study symmetry. He will face different people and body using a computer scanner entry to determine symmetry than. Survey results show that both sexes are of the view that a good body symmetry of the opposite sex more attractive. Thornhill explained that this is a genetic advantage, indicating that a person has a good survivability, with an indication of her / his body very healthy. In contrast, male observation of women is slightly different, and their attention to female facial symmetry than physical.

2, sexy chin

Short chin women, with thick eyebrows favored men. Thornhill said that the possession of these characteristics of men and women more attractive, because they presage reproductive health. Estrogen may restrict women under the face and jaw bone growth, making them relatively short, while this hormone also controls the growth of women’s eyebrows to make it more prominent. Men are subject to the effects of testosterone, contribute to the formation of a good face, jaw and thick eyebrows.

3, waist-hip ratio

U.S. University of Texas psychologist German la? Singh on the person’s waist-hip ratio of research and found that waist-hip ratio of 0.7 (indicating the waist to hip ratio is much smaller) female most men. Scientists told a magazine models and Miss America contestants size analysis results showed that the majority of these women have 0.7 below the waist-hip ratio. For women, waist-hip ratio of 0.8 to 1.0 between the most attractive men, while men are more aroused wide shoulders of a woman’s sexual desire.

The study also shows that in the framework of the ideal waist-hip ratio, regardless of their weight, are not susceptible to cardiovascular, cancer, diabetes and other diseases. And belong to women within the scope of the difficulties encountered during pregnancy will be less.

4, savor

German scientists Manfred? et al study found that people in the selection process of partners will instinctively use the nose, according to smell each other to determine the suitability of their own. Scientists explained that these rely on the sense of smell to identify sweetheart auxiliary functions and the body’s immune organizations. When people close to each other, the body emitting a smell would be perceived by the other side and determine whether the body tissues and organs can cause discomfort. Generally speaking, the identification of each other’s body odor will not be subject to the impact of the outside world, that is to say, despite the proper use of perfume, may help to enhance each other’s goodwill, but it will not play a decisive role.

5, sense of humor

The researchers found that, once completed lovers love long-distance race, personality similarity of their relations will grow even stronger. In addition, a sense of humor also helps to maintain the long-standing relations between the two sides. Canada’s McMaster University, Eric? Bresler said that the importance of humor for men and women are different, women will be favored to make himself laugh often men, men like to be even more women making fun of ourselves amused.

6, honest

It is interesting to note, scientists have just fell in love on the brain scan results showed that the quality topping the list of lovers is actually honest. Stephen Cornell University? and colleagues for nearly aged 18 -24 years old, ranging from young people conducted a survey and found that volunteers in particular, about the potential partner’s honesty, the only honest and important feature after the appearance, family sense of responsibility, wealth and status.

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