Archive for January, 2009

Men’s performance of love

Monday, January 19th, 2009

Love made some dippy “guy” made the unusual things will really scary jump.

A cursory look into, generally have the following symptoms. Listed for the ladies did not understand the reference:

1. There is no reason to call you. When you still go to work or at home, or at any time, he never made a phone call to move one’s lips stammered that he was in fact nothing special is that you would like to say a few words. If he is at this time in the office, you might hear him ringing other one after another, but he turned a deaf ear to continue to rush to and you say the words End.

2. He could not help him all the (mainly to impressive side) tell you. Will not help with pride in his buddies in front of you mentioned. In front of you, he seems to be very talkative, telling you about him and his family many cases, such as his loving, ah, ah his date of birth, his parents have any quirks ah, etc. The purpose is to let you get closer He, to narrow the distance between you. As long as you remember, he alone can not tell the fascinated, this feeling must be in his buddies in front of a spit at a faster pace. Women like to display in front of fellow fashion, men like to boast of his friends of the woman he loved.

3. To your friends very friendly. If you asked him a friend for your help, he will be particularly hard. The reason is simple, he wants you happy, let your friends boast of his.

4. He carefully to your every move. And you say, he will concentrate on looking at your eyes and lips. An eating out, he will not be carefully looked girls who enter and leave the United States. Sometimes, his eyes looked far away, but it is finishing his train of thought.

5. Dating, he was on time. In other words, he will not come too soon, but did not dare be late. In order to prepare for appointments, he will do some careful preparation and grooming, this is not a woman’s patents. He also hopes his eyes in your sexy and charming, impeccable. Being late is absolutely can not happen, all consider it very thoroughly.

6. He would not laugh at your interest. He will respect your various interests, including your shopping preferences. Usually you hear the so-called “men shopping with a woman” is in fact, married men are more freedom of speech, on the stage is now in captivated him, and you have the opportunity together, will be satisfied.

7. He did not mention the former romance. Even if you forced him to confess, he has only mentioned casually that sounds very some words, such as, “I am in full agreement and that person did not come, and her lifeless always the” what. If he tell you is that quite a period of remorse and the sad love story, then you have the attention.

8. And you have sex, his unabated. He would like to know you just feel. Because he cares about you. After having sex, even if he is unable to keep you and stay with him for half an hour, 20 minutes, this situation will not need any explanation, the only thing you can do is never approached him again.

9. He agreed to meet again the exact time. This is because he can not wait to see you again. If a man just want to present this half-hearted woman, he usually said: “Perhaps we meet again next weekend, tomorrow or Tuesday, Wednesday, we further telephone contact.” Finally, the woman to wait until most of the weekend that he pump body can not be an excuse.

10. He will declare you. He will have a direct or pretend jokingly ask you to do his wife. If you have been dating more than 10 times, he still said no, then you do not have him as her husband, the only candidate.

Love the psychological impact of a happy marriage

Monday, January 12th, 2009

Love is to create a harmonious prelude to marriage, whether it can pass it to achieve the desired goals, psychological factors are very important. Many young people love failure is often caused due to psychological barriers. The following types of psychological barriers need to be adjusted.

First, self-centered mentality, that kind of mentality of people, only lovers turn themselves around, listening to their words, for their own services to meet the needs of their own personality, regardless of each other’s needs, interests, hobbies and values. Thus difficult to heterosexual love. That kind of mentality of people, only to change their own values, at the same time learn to care about and respect for others, can be said to possess the basic conditions for success in love.

Second, the overall situation psychologically, it was the lover, too idealistic, the standard set too high, more than a real possibility. This has greatly narrowed the scope of choice, reducing the success rate of in love. Especially older youth, the overall situation of psychological more prominent, the outcome of. That kind of mentality from the idealistic people back to reality, the timely adjustment of the standard it is not too late mate.

Third, low self-esteem psychology, psychology of people have low self-esteem, does not necessarily mean that conditions are very poor. Some are also due to physical defects or professional reasons, or have had some fault arising. Inferiority easy for individuals in isolation, solitude, do not want to appear in public, unwilling to contacts with the opposite sex. Ideal encounter for fear of the opposite sex when the other side look down on themselves, dare not lose the opportunity to pursue bold. Was this the mentality of the people to pull themselves together, and foster self-confidence, self-psychology.

Fourth, herd mentality, the mentality of people who have such performance is the view of the lack of assertive lover. Others are consciously proud of the good, others think that the poor will be less than ideal, often drift away from their love. Was this the mentality of the people, broad audience that is good, but to seriously analyze and judge, decided their idea.

Fifth, male psychology, that kind of mentality not only of men than women believe that strong, while women also believe that men than women should be strong, the woman asked the man’s status, educational level higher than their own, while the male status, educational level lower than the woman, then do not have the courage to pursue the woman, this is the rule of feudal society patriarchal thinking residues, some young men and women also consciously bound by this concept. To overcome this psychological key to young men and women to really understand the true meaning of love, and foster the idea of equality between men and women.

Sixth, as a result of feudal superstition superstitious thinking of the psychological impact, it was for their own marriage pray fortune teller fortune-telling, thereby hampering the young men and women love to establish and develop relations, and even lead to the unfortunate. That kind of mentality should be to establish scientific concepts, to remove the effects of ignorance and heresy.

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